At the time this is posted, 2023 is just 2 weeks away, but let's keep it 1,000!!!! ANY DAY is a good day to decide you want to transition into your powerful grown woman era!! And what does every good era need? A SOUNDTRACK!!!!
So I've compiled some of my go-to songs, and I've asked some other women what theirs are so I could include them too. I really hope you enjoy the list, and these songs hype you up to take the stands you need to take and really harness the bad b1+chery that has been lying dormant inside you (or has been gaslit and squashed). Today, we say NO MORE!!!
NOTE: I am in monogamous marriage with a man, mother to a 4 year old, professional in the early education field, who is in bed by 9pm most nights, and I don't relate to the life described in some of these songs at ALL.....but the POWER, the CONFIDENCE, the FUN, the AUTONOMY......it really speaks to me, and you cannot tell me I'm not about that life. With that being said, I can't wait to hear about some of the decisions you're making in your powerful grown woman era!
The Sign -Lizzo
Good Thing - Zedd & Kehlani
Private Party - India Arie
Girls in the Hood -Megan Thee Stallion
Break My Soul -Beyonce
Y.A.S - Todrick Hall
Ain't It Fun - Paramore
Nann Badder - Shawna and Mia
Sweetest Pie - Megan Thee Stallion
I Like That - Janelle Monae
You Don't Own Me - SAYGRACE
Feeling Myself - Nicki Minaj
Pretty Girls Walk - Big Boss Vette
Sorry, Not Sorry - Demi Lovato
Try - Colbie Caillat
Juice - Lizzo
Control - Janet Jackson
So Good - Destiny's Child
King of Anything - Sara Bareilles
Chunky - Bruno Mars
Mood 4 Eva - Beyonce
Imma Be - Black Eyed Peas
Hard - Rihanna
Birthday Girl - Lizzo
So, there you go!! If you have any favorites that weren't on my list, leave them in the comments!!! Let's get a huge list going.
Also, let me know about any powerful decisions you've made lately! Let's celebrate each other.
4 powerful decisions I've made recently:
Got my nose pierced (been wanting to do that for YEARS)
Had a straight-shooting talk w my husband about ways I'm changing and what that means for our relationship/dynamic.
ACTIVELY putting distance between myself and harmful people (without feeling apologetic)
Using instacart more regularly to free up my time
If you're not sure where to start with making powerful decisions, consider setting up a Validation Session with me. We can figure it out together.